My Long-term closest friend

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Dear you,

You gotta learn to love yourself first without anyone else. Not everyone is going to give you a return, even when you give them kindness. Why trade your time and company for something so cheap?

Just because you have a lonely heart, it's not a good reason to accept everyone in. You can't hold on to something that is an illusion and forcing it to fix by itself. Regardless if it's about friendship or a relationship, you need to know your boundaries and start to draw lines.

I know infatuation and attachments are addictive but in the end, they give nothing but an empty feeling as a price to pay.



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